After today's insanity of occasions and conversations, I don't know that I have anything 'deep' left to say. On that note, tonight's blog is sort of 'light,' if you will. Boys. Would I be a true teenage, Christian girl if I never mentioned that word? Probably not. So what exactly can I blog about boys? Good question...I was thinking the same thing.
Well, I guess I'll start off by saying "Hi, my name is Julie. I'm single!" Haha no, but seriously. For as long as I can remember I've been the girl that can develop a crush in an instant, over the smallest little thing; take a cheesy smile for example. But over the years, and as I've grown in my relationship with Christ, I've come to realize that I don't need a boy to make me happy. Now granted, the fact that one of my life's dreams is to become a mommy, I've always felt that there was no reason for God to call me to a life of "singleness." However, I also feel as though He's been laying it on my heart to be satisfied with being single for a couple more years. And to enjoy this time pursuing Him with all of my heart, before one day giving it away to my future husband. Gosh I don't even know where I'm going with this..
Oh ok, so anyways, I think it's safe to say that a lot of young girls put themselves out there, and dress a certain way or act a certain way, for the mere attention of who they think is "thee one." (whatever that means!) I understand what that's like, but I think it's sooo important, if not crucial, to first fall in love with God above anyone or anything else, and to allow Him to satisfy us. Ladies, God calls us to be patient. We shouldn't be consumed with finding the perfect guy, rather let God lead someone to you. Gentlemen, I think it's okay for you to be patient too. Wait for God to lay someone on your heart to pursue. Now I'm no love guru, but rather a girl with standards. Don't believe me? If only you could see my little notecard of standards; and these aren't just any standards. To give you an idea: 1. obviously pursuing Christ 2. a good leader(assertive) 3. true gentleman/protective 4. funny guy 5. someone I'm attracted to 6. someone who loves/wants children. Shall I go on? It may sound cheesy, but it's a great reminder to never settle for less.
I guess I'm out of things to say on the topic of boys. All I know, is that from personal experience, they can easily cause drama if you let them, and "boys will always be boys." As for me, I'm gonna wait until college to even start dating; maybe by that time, both myself and all the guys out there will be a little more mature and have a better understanding for who we truly are. College can make or break people; but in either situation, it changes them in some way.
Sorry if this post was rather boring...my brain is fried and I'm ready for bed. Tomorrow is New Year's Eve, and I'm sooo excited to spend it with family and friends. God has great things in store for 2011! ...including my graduation :)
I Will Praise You O LORD My God, With All My Heart I Will Glorify Your Name Forever
When I reflect on my 2010 (and part of 2009), I wish I had figured out a lot of what you had much earlier.
ReplyDeleteMy end of 2009 and first half (Nearly 3/4) of 2010 was consumed with finding "That One." I had my standards for that "One" identified and I decided to set out and search. I would pray a lot about it, but it was prayer for my wishes to happen, not God's. I convinced myself that I was following his plan because I had been patient long enough, in my opinion, and was due for some returns.
At End of October, I began to reflect on my year being depressed, frustrated, and confused. I would pray in desperation asking, again, for my plans to be given a "yes". It was at this time that I began to see this years plan unfold and why things had to happen the way they did.
I was able to think of all things that I was able to do solely because I was/am single.
Think about it:
-When you're single, you can drop anything and everything when a friend is in trouble and they desperately need to talk.
-Instead of planning that next epic date, you can plan an event that a lot of people could attend an enjoy.
-Instead of staying in and watching a movie with the significant other, You can go out and serve others.
-And Finally, Instead of changing yourself to match what another person needs/wants you to be, you can solely work toward bettering yourself - to be the person God wants you to be
Ultimately, I think that our desire for companionship, among a host of other things, is to satisfy the need to feel...well...needed. God has plans for us all, and some of those plans require Him to keep us single so that he can better use us for His good work and pleasure. But that doesn't mean He will deprive us forever. He wants what's best for us and he wants so desperately to bless us if we follow him unconditionally (Matthew 7:7-11)
Personally, I know that I am not destined to be single forever. I, too, really want children and have a family. But I know that, in time, things will happen and that patients will be rewarded.
It's so encouraging to see you so willing to let the spirit work in you and through your actions. Keep up with the blog - it's a good read!
Aww thanks!!...and before I even reply, I must say that I absolutely LOVE James 1:2-4 :) I'm not sure who you are, but I'm soo glad that you read my blog and enjoy it. I know I enjoyed your comment and learned from it. Being single really does provide you with lots of time to serve others and care for your friends. And I know where you're coming from when you say that you'd pray for God's will, but in reality you were praying that God would answer your own personal desires. I've done that plenty of times! Anyways, thanks again for your comment. Keep em coming :)
ReplyDeleteOh this is Charlie BTW. I just liked James 1:2-4 (it's my life's theme verse) so I used it as a screen name.
ReplyDeleteDevotional this morning was:
Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart: wait, I say, on the Lord. Psalms 27:14
It's awesome that scripture has so many references to every problem that we may have. Its a great encouragment and comfort
oh haha ok. I remember you mentioning that now that I think about it. lol. And James 1:2-4 is definitely a great passage to live by! I know I do. Thanks again for your morning devotional! God is soo good at providing what we need to hear each day. Today was super crazy so simply remembering to wait on Him for strength was great to hear.
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